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"Julie"
Julie is 20 years old. When she first arrived at
HomeBase Youth Services Outreach Center she had been
homeless for three weeks. Unable to pay her monthly
bills, she was evicted from her apartment. Before
moving into HomeBase Youth Services' Transitional Living
Program, Julie had been surviving by bouncing between
motels and shelters. Her birth parents had lost custody
when she was a toddler due to neglect. Julie was placed
in multiple foster care homes until the age of five. At
five years old, she and her biological brother were
both adopted. Her history in so many different
foster homes made it difficult for her to attach to her
new parents. "It was very difficult for me to love and
trust others," she explained.
Over the last 7 years, Julie has been to several
therapists for various reasons. She was diagnosed with
a psychiatric disorder and a personality disorder and
had been prescribed multiple psychotropic medications.
Julie also shared a history of being raped several
years prior and had been in multiple dysfunctional
relationships with men. When Julie arrived at HomeBase, she
was no longer taking her psychiatric medications and
she was no longer in counseling. She was very tearful
when talking to a case manager about her relationship
with her adoptive parents. She cried, "I did not feel
loved at all."
Julie was admitted into the program and
counseled on a weekly basis due to her severe
depression. The issues she chose to work on were her
relationship with her parents, her grief related to
having a daughter and placing her for adoption and her
dependency issues with men. As of today, Julie has been
able to maintain her stability in the program. She is
going on to her fourth month of residency and has held
steady employment for most of this time. She has been
saving and managing her money and has almost paid off
all of her debts to her previous apartment complex for
delinquent bills. Although Julie had been to multiple
therapists and psychiatrists throughout her life, she
said, "None of them have helped me as much as the
therapist at HomeBase."
Julie has a much brighter outlook on life and is
beginning to understand her past and how it has colored
her current relationships with men and her peers. She's
dealing with her dependency, and her feelings of
abandonment by her family. Julie has begun trusting
others and her sense of self worth and feelings of
confidence are growing everyday. In therapy, she has
been working diligently on her issues with her parents
and seems to be making progress. "I am not so worried
about that as much as I was before", she says. "I used
to think about it everyday."
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